How to Deal With Drama at School

Step 1

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Deflect with humor when individuals tease or taunt you, if you can. Turn the situation into a joke instead of denying the rumor. Refusing the comment may egg on your offender. Humor often makes people realize the rumor is not true, based on your carefree attitude.

If Billy says something like, “Karen told me you made out with Russell,” respond with something like, “I can’t even talk to a boy, let alone kiss one!”

Step 2

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Ask to talk about the situation next time someone starts drama. You can approach the drama-spreader and kindly ask if you can talk about the rumors, or you can ask after they tease you next.

Say something like, “Hey, Tommy. Why do you keep telling people I failed 10th grade?”

It is better to discuss things rather than letting the drama fester. Oftentimes it doesn’t go away, it only gets worse.

Be confident in yourself when you ask. Drama queens and kings are less likely to mess with you if you are confident in yourself.